CHANCE OF WINTRY RE-MIX

Technically, these pics are from Friday morning, but I pretty much wore a version of this all weekend.  After last Friday's comfy husband shirt, I raided his closet once again and came away with this cozy, over-sized cardigan.

In keeping with the comfy boys clothes, I paired it with a pair of baggy boyfriend jeans.  Belting and cuffing the cardigan helped to nip things in a little, so I didn't feel like I was drowning.

And since comfort was all I wanted, thick, nubby socks and Clarks were just what the doctor ordered.  Hope you all had a comfy and cozy weekend!

Cardigan: John's - Jeans: Bitten by SJP, $10 - Clarks: Zappos, $70ish - Belt: Vintage, mom's

ALL SHE WANTS TO DO IS DANCE

I'm on my way out with a very good friend who is turning 30 today.  The birthday girl has decided on a night of dancing, which I'm super stoked about because I.  Love. To. Dance.  And I can never find anyone to go with me anymore.  In this little college town, we are sure to be the oldest ladies on the dance floor.  (Just a little perspective - we're going to an establishment that was know as "Players" until just a couple years ago.)  Hehehe...

Drinks and dancing with the girls is the PERFECT occasion for this cute little number.  Shop Mamie was nice enough to send this Socialite Dress for me to style up.  It's so soft and drapey and I love the opportunity to show a little shoulder now and again.

At first, I was going to belt it over tights with some flats very much like Jessica did here, but with the temperatures dropping, I decided to throw a pair of baggy harems over the dress.  And I LOVE the result.  It's funny how a baggy look, cinched in at the waist can make me feel just as sexy, if not more so, than something body hugging.

I'm super "pumped" (haha) for the chance to work with the girls from Shop Mamie.  Like me, they're PSU grads, too!  I love knowing the roots of a business and these stylish ladies have surely built their dream.  And just like BCC, they're all about great looks on a budget.  Woot!  Woot!

Dress: courtesy of ShopMamie.com - Pants: DIY, $7 - Belt: Gap, gifted - Shoes: Ross, $20

GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT LIST

Oh, what a day.  By 9am, I was ready for a redo, which would've had me sleep in just a bit longer.  First, I went on a run that turned into Nausea Fest 2010.  And, of course, I didn't have my phone with me and spent about a half hour walking 10 feet, then rolling into a ball for a minute, then another 10 feet, then a ball for a minute - until I finally got home.  I do it to myself a few times a year and will eventually learn my lesson.

Then, I went to plug in my laptop to realize that the 3rd prong of the plug was still in the outlet from last night.  Oh, joy.  Luckily, I got it out without electrocuting myself and my computer is still under warranty, so Dell is replacing my power cord.  The best thing about a crappy morning is that it leaves lots and lots of room for improvement.

And since things started off so dumpy, it only seemed fitting that Iggy was taking a giant dump in the background of half of my photos.  Don't worry - I'll spare you the photographic evidence, since it was butt to camera and all.  Thanks, buddy...

On the bright side, do you like my new dress?  After the Weardrobe Conference, Gilt Groupe gave us a very generous credit at their super sale site, which includes Gilt Fuse.  Gilt Fuse is much more my style - you know, cheaper and all.  So, when I saw this dress, I fell in love with the shape and print.  But alas, when I tried to add it to my cart, it was sold out.  Sad face.  However, when we met with the Gilt girls, they suggested to always use the "wait list" button if you can't get an item.  That way, if one becomes available, it's yours!

Well, folks, it worked!  A few days ago, I got an email saying that my wait listed dress was now available.  So, I scooped it up, and still have a little more credit to spare.  If you're not a Gilt Group member, click here to register or use the link in my sidebar.

The fabric is such a cool print and I love that it's springy while still appropriate for winter wear.  And paired under my gray moto jacket?  Exactly what I wanted!

Dress: Twinkle by Wenlan, Gilt Fuse credit - Jacket: Target, 7.50 - Belt: vintage, mom's closet - Flats: JCP, $8

WINTER WHITE

I was stuck inside all day today with no internet and couldn't wait to get home to see if anyone responded to my earlier post.  I was blown away by all of your great points and input.  If you haven't read it yet, head on over and weigh in on the style vs. fashion debate.

In other news, it was another busy and rushed day.  And I apparently have no idea what day of the week it is, either, because I told someone I would see them today, when I clearly meant tomorrow - but that was yesterday, when today was tomorrow and tomorrow was Thursday.  Well, you get the drift ... - anyway, oopsie!

Knowing what kind of a morning it would be, I did set out my clothes last night.  What a difference it makes!  I know this - I just need to do it.  A great dress is perfect for days like today.  They don't require much fuss and can be remixed with a simple change of accessories.  You can see the first way I wore it here.

It may quite possibly be the softest thing I own.  Well, the softest thing I own that's appropriate to wear in public anyway.

And a big huge thanks to the Meatball for being so patient this morning and snapping a few pictures before work.  I knew I wouldn't have enough time to do the whole tripod fandangle (is that a word and, if so, how do you spell it?), but I also knew it would be dark after work.  So, thanks, babe! (I love the last one!)

Dress: vintage, store credit at The Rag and Bone - Boots: Payless, courtesy of the Weardrobe Conference

Scarf: vintage, mom's closet - Earrings: Old Navy, $3ish - Bracelets: craft store, $1 each

This entire outfit: practically free

CROCK-POT MEXICAN CHICKEN

Ask and you shall receive.  Here's the kick-ass chicken dish I made this past weekend:

2-3 frozen chicken breasts

1 jar of salsa

1 can of diced tomatoes

1 can of drained black beans

2ish cups of frozen corn

season with a packet of taco seasoning or chili powder, cumin and allspice

Throw everything into the crock-pot and cook for 3-4 hours on high.  Once the chicken is fully cooked, take it out and shred it, then throw it back in and let it cook just a wee bit more.

I'm not one for measuring and this recipe was recited to me, so I've never seen it on paper.  It's pretty hard to screw up (okay, I may have put too much chili powder in it), and it tastes awesome over corn bread.  Enjoy!

(Sorry I don't have a pretty picture.  When I see food, I don't take pictures of it - I eat it!)

STYLE VS. FASHION

Do you think there's a difference between style and fashion?  Or are they interchangeable?

I find myself mulling over this one quite a bit.  While the two are in no means mutually exclusive, I do think that they are very different.  When someone asks if I consider BCC a "style blog" or a "fashion blog," I immediately answer, "style blog."  And even though I'm so certain that I am one and not the other, I'm still trying to find the clear distinction between the two.  So far, this is what I'm thinking:

From the very beginning, this blog's mission was (and still is) to prove that real women in real towns with real budgets and real lives can look great no matter what.  It is not and never was about the labels or the price.    It's always been about doing something extraordinary with something rather ordinary.  I think that's where I find myself writing a "style blog" and not a "fashion blog."

While I don't subscribe to any particular designer's collections every season, I do occasionally turn to the runways and editorial fashion mags for a good dose of inspiration.  I find it more and more helpful when it comes to pushing my own boundaries.  At the same time, those runways and editorials seem so inaccessible to me.  Not only can I not afford designer labels and top shelf retail, but I would feel like a fraud.  It's just not me.  Anyone can put on an amazing designer or expensive piece and look fashionable.  But does is that the same as being stylish?

I've always felt that fashion comes from the outside - it's the influence, the spark - and style comes from the inside - the ability, the eye.  Similarly, I've always viewed fashion as something that is presented to me, and style is what I do with it.  Style is making it my own ... or you making it your own.  You know that feeling when you get dressed in the morning and love your outfit and feel like the best version of yourself?  Even if everyone else hates it, and you love it - it's your style.  It's kind of like intelligence in a way - some people have a natural tendency towards it, and others have to work harder to obtain it - but in the end, no one else can take it away.

Maybe I'm being unfair by assuming that fashion has to mean expensive.  Maybe money can buy style.  I'm curious - what do you think?

HOME STANDS

I think today may be the epitome of my crazy for the week.  And I have to admit, it's going pretty well.  I'm still going to have a bit of upheaval in my schedule over the next couple of weeks, but it will all work out.

Keeping with the theme of the rest of the week so far, I am under-rested and ill-prepared, so today's outfit struck a lucky note when it fell together so quickly this morning.  I scored these Hue tights for $4 a few weeks ago and kind of forgot about them.  Because all of my black tights could walk on their own they're so dirty, I had no choice but to pull these out.  But I'm glad I did, because they're perfect!

I was thinking layered florals this morning.  And also comfy, comfy, comfy.  I think I managed both.

This jacket was an unexpected thrifting steal a while back.  I didn't need another denim jacket, but I couldn't pass this one up.  It was 30 cents!!!  For that price, I thought I would pick it up just to give to someone.  But one I tried it on, I decided it was going nowhere other than my closet.  Because it's a girl's jacket, it's nice and fitted through the torso, but roomy enough in the arms for some serious cuffing.  But why don't Levi's jean jackets have pockets?!  Luckily, my dress does.

Dress: Fred Flare, $40 - Jacket: thrifted Levi's, $.30 - Tights: Hue, $4 - Boots: Target, $35